Jeffcoat Jungle

G'Day Mate!

2009-06-24T18:49:00.003-05:00

Our Vacation Bible School theme this year was the Boomerang Express. The boys had an absolute blast! At the end of the week, they participated in the musical program- well, sort of. If you watch the video, you will see what I mean. Even though both of them practiced, only one finished strong. I love their different personalities!

Say Cheese!

2009-06-19T07:40:00.002-05:00

Summer time brings water fun in this crazy Columbia heat! We went to the spray pool earlier in the week. It was Olivia's first time and, obviously, she enjoyed her self.

Learned Lesson

2009-06-17T06:43:00.005-05:00

I am sure I will have to experience innocence lost with my children. CJ and I do our best to let them keep their innocence as long as possible as best we can in this Soddom and Gommorah in which we live: Mainly thorugh protecting their eyes. Boys are so intrigued- and later on stimulated- by sight, it's imperative to me to guard their eyes while I am training them in these early years on what is more important to focus. However, their hearts can only be guarded for so long by me. Sometimes, when they realize the reality is not what they expected, it stings. Cole got a quick lesson in that.

It's no secret my boys love to be either in their underwear or dressed up like super heroes. I suppose it's only natural they would like to wear their costumes out in public. I suppose since we go to a Lowe's where I have seen some in p.j.'s (not me, Dena :) ), it would not be against any decency laws. So, on a trip to Lowe's, Cole decides to wear the Batman regala complete with the mask. I'm not sure how he expected to be received; maybe with thanks of gratitude for continually defeating the bad guys. Maybe he wanted a free soda (very restricted at our house- we have enough energy) for his keen wit. All I know is the conversation went like this:

Cole: Mom, when we get to the store, you just push me around in the buggy because it's a little hard to see in this mask.

Me: Cole, what will you say if people talk to you as if you're Batman.

Cole: Mom, I AM Batman. I think they will like to see me out.

Me: OK, we can do that.

Upon entering, needless to say, not too many people noticed how I was lucky enough to be pushing in THE Batman. They basically just went around their business doing thier thing. We got an occassinal look and brief smile and there was a teenage employee who, indeed, thanked Batman for all of his hard work. But for the most part, it was a quiet trip. We got a few snickers and it was hard to tell if they were snickers like, "Oh my gosh, I can't believe his mom let him out that way." or "Look at him, he is so cute." It was probably a bit of both. But since 5 year olds don't distinguish a sarcastic tone from another one(Note to CJ ;) ), I found my protective mom mode kicking in and trying to avoid the aisles with the perpetrater laughers. When we got into the van, my son proved, once again, he was much more keen than I ever think is.

Cole: Mom, no one seemed to notice me.

Me: Maybe they did and just thought you didn't want to be bothered.

Cole: Well, I looked at people and smiled. They didn't smile back. I even took my mask off so they would not be scared.

Me: Cole, not all people will be kind to you just because you're kind to them. But that doesn't mean we stop being kind. And besides, what about that guy who thanked you for fighting the bad guys?

Cole: Yeah, but that was only one out of all the people I saw.

Me: One is better than none and that must be how lots of other heroes feel when they aren't noticed.

The fact my five year old was brave enough to wear that Batman costume to the store tells me I have the makings of a mighty warrior on my hands. The fact he noticed others tells me he has a compassionate heart.

Lord, guide CJ and me as we seek to train these boys to be seekers of You and warriors for the cross. May we impart knowledge and guidance to them as You grow them and give them talent and wisdom. As mighty as I want them to be, more than that, I want them to be reckless abandoned men after Your heart.

Small and Compact

2009-05-31T13:56:00.006-05:00

Not many people can say they still get to bathe their 10 month old in the sink (and our sink is smaller than most standard sized sinks); but really?! How cute is she?!?!

Feeling the Jeffcoat Love

2009-05-30T14:25:00.003-05:00

I am definitely getting soft in my old age.

Last fall, we had a stray cat mosey up to our door with the loudest meow! Because the boys play outside so much, they fell in love with her and I agreed to feed her as long as she stayed OUTSIDE! When winter came, it was so cold and she looked o pitiful, so I gave in allowing her to come inside for a couple of nights. A couple led to many and now, Lola has become a permanent member of the Jeffcoat House. Ms. Lola decided we needed to expand and gave u some kittens 8 weeks ago. CJ and I were not amused. Having littel knowledge of how cats operate (we have always had dogs), we found out kittens nurse for about 6-8 weeks and then they can be separated for their mom. We took them to 7 and off they went. Now, as you can imagine, the boys- much to my chargrin- grew close to the kittens. I believe it was the whole "I want what I can'y have thing." because I wold not even let them hold them but once a week. But nonetheless, somehow, how all 5 kittens were named (a couple by me admittantly :) ).

As we are driving around several different places trying to find homes for these animals the boys still had in their minds that somehow, we would keep at least 3 of them: Kitten Batman, Kitten Robin, and Kitten Spider Man. When I finally came out of a door with an empty kennel, you would have thought I had just taken off a pinky toe of theirs. They began wailing and tearing their clothes in sorrow (nah, just kidding about the tearing clothes part)! My most pouty son said, "Mom, how could you do that? I never even got to say good bye!" My spunky one said the worst thing he could possibly think to call me, "Mama, you're a poopey diaper baby!" My logical thinker replied, "Mom, we could have kept at least one. We could take care of just one." Of course the baby was clueless.

We wrapped up our day going to McDonald's and eventually, I wasn' receiving the "Mom, you're so mean" look. Ms. Lola has an appointment to get spayed later next month.

So Sad

2009-05-29T23:22:00.004-05:00

It's me, the slackest blogger as of late.
I have come to the conclusion that I can not do it all. I can do anything just not everything (at once) and I need to choose what captures my heart, not necessarily my eye. So, for me, that has been facebooking (because it is like an online social cafeteria), cleaning (or trying to), cooking, playing with my kids, teaching them responsibility by staying in behind them while they do "chores", and teaching preschool. "Why would I teach preschool?" you may ask; it's simple: I love teaching! I have been trained in that field and I truly enjoy it. It's also an outlet for me as I enjoy researching and planning stuff. We are plannng to homeschool our children, so I had a brief time where I could serve other children and there became a need at the boys' preschool/ mother's moring out. It has left time for very little extra curricular activities for myself. When you have 4 kids, it's time consuming enough. Throw in a part time job (no matter how few hours), it makes things crazy. I really do not know how moms work full time and balance it all! Hats off to them! And I will admit, it's easy for me to lose focus and make certain things more important that they should be. I am so thankful for my husband who not only lets me stay home (even though we would benefit from the extra money), but encourages me to do so. I'm the type of person who would lose the balance in the wrong direction.

So, it's been about 6 months since I've posted. I better get busy- tomorrow ;).

Santa Baby

2009-01-20T13:17:00.002-05:00

Olivia had a great first CHRISTmas. She was the social butterfly and then soothed herself with a new trick.

CHRISTmas Time

2009-01-20T12:21:00.005-05:00

This past CHRISTmas started out with a bang at the boys' preschool. They put on their 2nd annual concert and both Cole and Jonah went on stage and sang their songs. Jonah started out as a donkey, but then got promoted to a shepherd and Cole was so excited he got to be a "Meatball Head." I didn't get it until I saw the wise man costume he wore. They both did awesome!!

Judah and Olivia, as usual, found other ways to occupy thier time. Livi was entralled by Mimi's name tag, and Judah-bug was hording all of the M&M's while sitting in Poppy's lap.

(Some) Things I Have Done

2009-01-11T22:12:00.002-05:00

I found this over at Happy at Home and thought it was cute and different. Of course, it's not extensive- hee, hee- but a little insightful. Feel free to copy and paste for your blog.

All of the bold items are ones I have done:

1..Started your own blog
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland/world
8. Climbed a mountain (do "mountains" in Greenville, SC count? I guess not.)
9. Held a praying mantis (That would be an explicative + "no")
10. Sang a solo
11. Bungee jumped (see #9)
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea (but I have on the lake)
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables (this spring, though)
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitch hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
24. Built a snow fort (Yeah, I live in South Carolina)
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon (:::sigh:::hopefully next year!)
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors (I'm mostly Native American so I'm gonna go yes on this one)
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing (Does river walking count? Haha!)
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen (although I feel like I do that every night at my house with the boys)
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Gotten flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving (Now that's just crazy talk)
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
71. Eaten Caviar
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone (my arm and a foot fracture- no fun.)
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle (it was actually a dirt bike, but I did run into m y parents' house so I think that counts as speeding)
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem (Oh, if I could talk my husband into letting me go...)
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating (I'm counting going fishing and cooking your catch)
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life (No, but I did pray for helaing for someone and God said "Yes" and then immediately did it. It was AWESOME!)
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous (LL Cool J- HA!)
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee

Are You There, God?

2009-01-05T13:59:00.002-05:00

I love listening to my children's conversations. It reminds me how much really sinks in and it also reminds me to watch what is said. I feel obligated to not just teach my children about God, His grace, and love for us, but that their theology is correct. So much had to be undone for me as I grew into an adult.. anyway, that is another blog.... the point of this one is the manipulation of my 4 year old. Here is the conversation I heard:

Jonah: "Look, Cole! It's Santa in those people's yard!"

Cole: "That is so cool, Jonah, but you know Santa lives in Heaven with God and Jesus."

Jonah: "I know. I wish Jesus would come play with me."

Cole: "Well, Jonah, you can talk to him anytime you want. And he will even talk back to you. But you have to be REAL quiet because when God speaks, He talks like a whisper. He sounds like this:" Cole turns his head to face the window and begins to whisper.

"Jonah, you need to make sure you obey your mommy and daddy because that makes Me happy. Oh, and you make sure you share your trucks with your brother Cole any time he asks."

Jonah looks up and says, "God?! Is that You?!"

Sweet Jonah!

As If I Don't Have Enough To Do

2009-01-05T13:44:00.004-05:00

I have wanted to learn to sew for a long time but having a little girl has inspired me to actually go for it. My friend, Leslie, worked with me to make Olivia these pants while we were visiting. She was not nearly as impresed to wear them as I was I made them! Leslie makes the absolute most adorable stuff for her girls. Not that I could attain her level of style (I do think that is one of the reasons why God gave me such great girl friends- I am style-challenged), but I am aiming high. I got a new sewing machine for CHRISTmas and I have already picked out what I want to make for Livi. We'll see how it turns out.

Through the Eyes of a Child

2009-01-05T13:37:00.003-05:00

The day before Thanksgiving Cole said, "Mama, do you want me to show what a turkey does?"

"Of course I do!"

This is what I get.

When I said, "Cole, honey, that is not what a turkey does. They walk around and say, 'Gobble, gobble.' "

He replied, "That isn't what that turkey in that pan is doing."

Two Peas

2009-01-05T13:30:00.002-05:00

If you looked up the word "tenacious" in the dictionary you may find one of these two faces. Les and I have laughed about how Reese and Judah need their individual nannies. And, as if it weren't obvious, they would definitely get into so much more trouble if'n they weren't so cotton pickin' CUTE!!

I KNOW, I KNOW!

2009-01-03T20:48:00.003-05:00

Who would have thought adding one more to the mix would take so much more time, but it really does. Of course, when you factor in feeding, changing, making sure no one jumps on her head, I guess our little Olivia does take up a bit more than her 10 pounds might suggest. This will serve a a short and sweet reminder to myself (and those of you who faithfully check in on us) that I need to show you all our awesome family! I have had so much fun with them, I haven't even made time to brag on them or share their funny stories; I mean, really, the Jeffcoat boys can crack a person up. Hopefully, I will get some air in the next day or two to share. Besides that, God has been moving me in some specific areas of my being. I save those thoughts for my other blog, because, really, most of you just want the "fun stuff." It's in my being to be pretty heavy- much more than most want to handle- so I share those thoughts elsewhere. I'll be updating that as well. For now, it's off to fold my ever growing pile of laundry!

Nutty Treasure

2008-11-14T16:06:00.005-05:00

I love raising boys! God teaches me so much through them.

When I emptied the washer out one day this is what I found: 2 acorns and a nut. I knew it could have only come from the pockets of one of my sweet guys.

"Jonah, look what I found in the washing machine."

"Mama! You found my treasure! Thank you so much. I just knew I had lost it!"

"I didn't find it, Jonah, the washing machine did. I just pulled it out after it was cleaned."

"But you rescued it, Mama. It would not have come out without you."

God reminded me this is how He sees us: cleaned off and rescued treasure- even if the world only sees nuts. To the Him, we are the apple of His eye and His love never leaves us behind.

Nuts and Goats

2008-11-14T15:07:00.003-05:00

The boys and I went to my uncle's to pick up pecans. He has about 4 very mature trees in his front yard. We nuts had a great time collecting some nuts and feeding Clyde, the pecan eating dog. We were so excited when he announced my cousin's goats just had some kids about 3 days ago " 'round back" and asked if we wanted to go see them. HECK YEAH! We love some goats! Of course, my loving Judah was very persistent in trying to pick up one of the kids and I just knew the Mama was going to buck him. Thankfully, we got out of the gate with no one getting run over by the billies or the nannies!

A Thespian, A Not So Much, An Eater, and a Cheerleader

2008-11-14T14:47:00.004-05:00

Cole and Jonah had their Fall Concert a few weeks ago at preschool. Cole was SO into it. He really enjoyed being on stage, singing the songs and of course, the applause afterwards. But Jonah, not so much. He refused to even go up on stage. He sat on his best bud's mom's lap during the show. Judah ate pretzels during the whole time (even though we had eaten dinner beforehand) and Livi was there to cheer everyone on but really, she just wanted to sleep.

Jeffcoat Acre

2008-11-11T09:09:00.010-05:00

I have gotten a glimpse of what is it going to take to feed 3 boys- A LOT! These boys of ours wreak havoc on our food budget now and they aren't even teenagers!! CJ and I were excited at the thought of having an acre of land to plant a garden, but now we are planning to do a little homesteading as well. In the spring we are going to get some chickens and goats. Originally it was going to be for fun (because we don't have enough to keep us busy ;) ), but now with the Jeffcoat boys' hearty appetites well underway, it will be more for survival. Here are a few pics of Jonah and me getting our garden ready for planting. Since then, we have decided to expand it a little for spring.

What a Square!

2008-10-30T09:04:00.003-05:00

On the way to preschool this morning Cole was kicking Jonah's legs in the back seat. I am trying really hard to not yell at them so much so I turned down the radio and said, "Cole, please stop kicking your brother."
Of course, he continued.

"Cole, Mommy said to stop kicking your brother and I am not asking. If you choose to disobey, you will be disciplined for your disobedience."

He proceeds to tell me all of the reasons he deems it necessary to kick Jonah's feet. Appealing to the "4 year old oldest brother wanting to please Mommy" mentality I said, "It gives Mommy a sad heart when you are mean to your brothers."

"Mommy, I don't have a heart."

"WHAT?!"

"I have a square."

Oh No

2008-10-27T16:03:00.003-05:00

As treats, the boys get to choose a dum dum sucker out of the bag. Today we only had 3 left and 2 of them were the same flavor. It was Jonah's turn to choose first, so he chose the different one. Cole and Judah got the leftovers. Cole said, "What flavor is this, Mama?"

"Butterscotch."

"Great (with a sarcastic tone). I get butt-scotch."

I reminded him that at least he got a sucker; and then, yes, I corrected him. :)

Holy No TV!!!

2008-10-21T13:07:00.004-05:00

We don't watch regular TV in the Jeffcoat House. If you turn on our huge 61 inch TV, there isn't even local channels playing. We use it for movies we get from Nextflix and video games. Therefore, I find it absolutely hysterical that my boys are completely enamored with superheroes. Neither of them have seen either Batman or Spider-Man; yet, this is how they like to play. Oh, and the primary purpose of the trampoline- as I have been informed- is to "Fly, Mama, we have to fly."

Back in Action!

2008-10-21T12:44:00.004-05:00

We have definitely been a little busy in this Jeffcoat house over the last few months! I am beginning to feel like I am getting my faculties together after having Olivia. It has not been as a difficult transition as our last couple of births, but it has certainly seemed to add a lot of extra work. Dressing, feeding, keeping clean after dressed, and getting out the door with 4 children has definitely required some extra planning. Many things have fallen by the wayside; blogging is one. Sigh.
However, I think we are getting back on schedule. Stay tuned...

A Birthday and an Epiphany

2008-09-15T06:59:00.004-05:00

Today is my Judah's 2nd birthday! I was getting him dressed this morning and had him on top of the kitchen counter because it's just easier with him that way. In the hustle and bustle of the morning- the other boys running, talking loudly, the TV blaring, me thinking about making CJ's lunch, etc., I looked up and caught a glance of my future: One day soon, my 2 year old will indeed be towering above me as he grows into a man. Wow! Looking into his sweet face (while he is pulling at my hair), my eyes swelled with the tears realizing he is my last little boy I will fasten overalls on and my last little one to teach to aim correctly while using the potty.

I became overwhelmed with a sense of urgency. It wasn't to spoil him or buy him all he wanted in this precious stage of life. It was to make sure I am being the very best mom God has called and equipped me to be. I felt the urgency to equip him to be the man, friend, husband, and father God has planned for him. For us, that looks so differently than how the world portrays it. It actually is anti-world in so many respects. All Jesus loving parents face the same dilemma: How do I teach my kids to be in the world and not of it. Paul wrote about being transformed by renewing our minds in Romans 12 and how conforming should not even be a goal of ours; yet, as parents, we want our kids to "fit in" and to "look the part." We want them to be popular, liked, and invited to all of the parties. But, I don't.

I don't want the "nice" kids. I don't want kids who walk on eggshells around others because they might hurt someone's feelings and not get an invitation. I want my kids to be warriors for truth and to stand up for what God says is right- even if it means not fitting in all of the time. Am I teaching my kids those values? Will my boys love their wives as Jesus loves the church? Will they be men after God's own heart? Or will they be bratty grown ups who pout when life doesn't go their way or they get denied something their flesh wants? That is why parenting is so tough. You won't know until they are grown up and have children of their own to reflect what you passed onto them. And even then you aren't sure.

Happy birthday, Sweet Judah! Mommy clings to you a little tighter because you are my last little boy and, selfishly, my last chance to get it right. I can't wait to see what awesome things our mighty God does with you! He gave me your name before we even knew you were a boy. I pray you will praise Him all the days of your life!!

Revelation

2008-08-20T08:44:00.002-05:00

You mean there are 3 of them and they live here too!?

All Clean

2008-08-19T09:06:00.003-05:00

Cole had his first trip to the dentist recently (Yes, I said "first"- bad mom!). He has no cavities and I really can't believe it with all of the sweets he enjoys. This is a picture of the hygienist going over all of the tools she uses so he knows what is going on. He did great! I was really proud of the way he listened to her and the dentist and didn't pitch a fit when she started cleaning and poking around in his mouth. I would have taken more pictures, but I felt like the dorky mom snapping the one pic I did take and I didn't want to embarrass him.

All Aboard!

2008-08-17T22:30:00.007-05:00

Pops, CJ's dad, came down from Florence, SC (about an hour or so away) Saturday morning for a fun-filled day with the boys. We all went and had breakfast- YUMMO- then Livi and I headed out to do some girl stuff while the boys headed to a train museum another hour away. They all had an absolute blast! They got to look around at some train pictures and paraphernalia; but the highlight was taking an actual train ride. They could hardly contain themselves inside the train. I wasn't there so I can't share any funny things I am sure the boys said, but the expressions on their faces proves what a great time they had.

They got home late in the afternoon and I found it most funny that the only person who wanted- and took- a nap was CJ.

Word-ful Wednesday

2008-08-13T13:10:00.002-05:00

Someone has yet to discover she is out of the womb.

(ball courtesy of Judah ;))

Princess Olivia

2008-08-11T16:58:00.003-05:00

After returning home from the hospital, taking another trip to the hospital, and settling in back home, we were finally able to get some snaps of our princess.

The princes are absolutely in love with her and have trouble staying out of her face. We are working on kissing her feet.

She, obviously, is not as impressed with us :). Oh well. Stuck with us she is.

Thursday 13

2008-08-07T15:54:00.004-05:00

13 Reasons I Married This Man of Mine

1- He makes me laugh so hard- even now after 9 years of marriage.

2- He makes me feel safe.

3- His passion for life, Jesus, and me ;)

4- His wit and sarcasm; some, well, most find this offensive, but I enjoy it.

5- His love of children- even ours. LOL!

6- He is so stinkin' smart- it's disgusting how he can do anything after he reads about it.

7- I knew I could do more for Jesus with him than on my own.

8- All of the adventures we have had: roommates, almost running into a tree in the mountains, deaths of loved ones, fights with people we love, babies, world traveling, rude people who curse us in a foreign language, highs and lows of life- and it's only beginning!

9- He will fight with me- I enjoy a little passionate conversation every now and then :).

10- His boundless energy and creativity.

11- He dreams BIG!

12- He gets up quickly after he falls- and picks me up along the way.

13- He loves me the way I am, but encourages me to be better without ever saying anything.

I love you, CJ. You are my best friend and I am so thankful God gave you to me (You lucky man, you!)!

Happy Anniversary!

Sneak Peek

2008-08-03T21:13:00.005-05:00

You can thank Leslie for this one. Don't worry, though, there will be more to come this week. We got our camera!!!!

Teaser

2008-07-27T17:05:00.003-05:00

She has arrived!

Olivia Neil was born Tuesday morning, July 22 via c-section. She and I spent 4 lovely days in the hospital recovering and bonding. We are home now and probably won't have pictures up for another week or two. Thanks for your patience. She is beautiful- if I do say so myself ;)! The boys are absolutely in love with her and part of my daily battle is working with them on the real meaning of being gentle. They try; they just don't have it in them yet. Gentleness is a learned skill in the Jeffcoat house.

The Waiting Game

2008-07-18T07:33:00.005-05:00

Even though my actual due date isn't until this Monday (the 21st) I was hoping my activity level throughout this pregnancy would allow for an earlier exit. That would be a no go. So, what are we to do? STAY BUSY. That is exactly what we have done despite my increasing fatigue. Keeping going is much better than leaving 3 very active little boys to themselves during too much free time. We've been enjoying Mimi and Poppy's pool a great deal as well as a sweet trip day trip to the 'Ville. We even had a short visit from some our surrogate family from California (She took all the pictures with her.). Our new found treasure has been the spray pools at the various parks around town. The boys play without getting overheated and then come home and crash for a nap- YES!!!!

Hopefully we'll a have a little girl in our midst soon!

That Cole

2008-07-07T13:52:00.003-05:00

The boys were at my mom's for date night last night and, thanks to a generous Poppy, had a lot of junk to eat. Finally, my mom put her foot down when Cole asked for another piece of candy and said, "Not before eating some food." Cole agreed to a (what else) peanut butter sandwich. After my mom fixed it for him, he broke it in half and gave the half to Jonah and then broke his own half again and gave the piece to Judah. He asked for the candy and my mom says, "You didn't eat your sandwich, you gave it away, so no."

Cole, who is very full of expression when he talks, says, using both hands to illustrate, "The picture on my refrigerator at home with my Bible verse says I should do to others like I want done *. Mimi, I'm just trying to love my people."

I'm sure she gave in.

That Cole!

* The verse we are memorizing is "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Luke 6:31

Thursday 13

2008-07-02T18:24:00.004-05:00

13 Cravings I've Had During all 4 of My Pregnancies
(I craved good stuff too, but these were more fun to post)

Wordless Wednesday

2008-07-02T08:37:00.003-05:00

Puddin' Boy

It's All In the Name

2008-06-30T20:29:00.005-05:00

Tonight we were having our family devo time and CJ was reading the story of Moses (We have an upper hand here thanks to the movie The Prince of Egypt the boys have seen a lot). At the end of the story, CJ says to the boys, "God had a special plan for Moses and He has a special plan for each of us. How does it make you feel to know God has somthing special for just you to do?"
Cole says, "It makes me happy."
Jonah (who I sometimes liken to Eeyore in personality) says, "It makes me sad."
I responded, "Why does that make you sad, Jonah?"
He replies, "Because I don't want to get thrown off the boat and eaten by the big fish! That will be very scary!"

Maybe having a biblical name could be a bit confusing for a 3 year old. LOL!

Summer Lovin'

2008-06-12T13:06:00.003-05:00

What 8 month pregnant mom takes her 4 year old, 3 year old, and 21 month old to the beach one day and the water park the next in 100 degree heat?! Eww, eww, pick me, pick me!!!!

We decided on a little bru-ha-ha to Summerville before Olivia arrives in July. After that, I will be the food source and not able to do a whole lot with the boys alone- much less take the baby into the heat. We decided to go to the beach one day, the water park the next, and do some visitng with our Summerville friends the next day. It was a great plan, considering we were staying at Dena's fo' free while she and Da' Crew were cruisin' (Yay for them, sad for me ;)).

The Jeffcoat boys had an absolute blast!! It was Judah's first time at the beach and he did very well! He was a little freaked about the sand moving when the waves went back out; I think he thought it was going to take him too. Jonah was a bit more brave this year. He actually went out past his ankles! Of course, Cole wanted to be taken to the limit- as far as we could go. For me, that wasn't very far. My mom went too, so she was able to take him a bit further.

The next day, we went to the water park. Cole was SO excited he could get on some of the slides because he is now 42 inches tall. That again, was a Mimi deal. We laughed because Cole could technically go down the really big slide now, but NEITHER of us were about to tell him. We'll save that one for Daddy! Jonah went down the kiddie slide all by himself over and over, but still didn't want to brave the tube slide. Judah was just happy the ground wasn't moving! All of them talked big about standing under the bucket when it tipped out, but none of them would do it when the time came. Oh well, maybe next year. I know this post would be so much better with pictures and we even had a camera with us; but really, with my busy-body boys, there was no down time. We were standing and moving our heads to and fro constantly keeping up with them.

I actually over did it and got a little sick cutting our trip a day early, but it was SO worth it! My mom and I were exhausted and are just now starting to regain some sense about us. I'm looking forward to next summer when we will all be able to do a lot more!!

Thursday 13

2008-06-04T21:23:00.002-05:00

Many of you know how scatter- brained I am these days, so I leave my purse in the car as to not forget it when I leave the house. I decided to FINALLY clean it out this week and here are

13 Not-So-Common Objects I Found in My Purse
(which keeps getting bigger with each child):

1- A butter knife
2- 2 bottles of Infants' Motrin
3- Infants' Motrin dispenser
4- A plastic fork
5- Squishy, sticky toy that is supposed to stick to the wall when you throw it
6- A disposable camera
7- Mr. Spank
8- Thank- you cards (some filled in and some not)
9- Chewed up sucker sticks
10- Alphabet flash cards
11- Free range Skittles (I don't eat Skittles)
12- Already chewed gum wrapped up in sucker paper
13- Diapers and wipes

There were several other funny things I found, but I'll keep with the "13" theme.

Monday Menu- A Day Late

2008-06-03T09:16:00.002-05:00

We were super busy yesterday so I'm just now posting this. All of the recipes for this week came from an issue of Southern Living. We'll see how they turn out!

Tuesday
Tuna Cornbread Cakes; Rice and Tomatoes

Wednesday
Savory Herb Pork Chops with Roasted Apples and Sweet Potatoes

Thursday
Confetti Beans and Rice with Chicken; Caramelized Squash (Buffie's- Yummo!)

Friday
Good Ole' Pizza- which we might make at The Bailey B&B!

Down on the Farm and Redneck Wedding

2008-05-31T07:13:00.003-05:00

It seems living out here in the "country" is beginning to seep into my children. They have always had a bit of country in them with them liking to run around naked and pee in the yard of our old neighborhood (we lived on the main entrance road)! While we were watching Charlotte's Web this morning Cole informed me that he was planning to have a barn with lots of animals to talk to and feed. He especially wanted a pig to play with. Yesterday he informed me he was planning to marry his Princess Abby at the Monster Truck Show. I did tell him I didn't think Ms. Leslie and Abby's Mimi would go for that! Get out your overalls and straw hats!!

Word-Ful Wednesday

2008-05-28T10:55:00.002-05:00

Have you seen these?

They are a new staple in the Jeffcoat House! No mess (not even for my Judah) and even my picky eater likes them. We keep ours in the frig and heat them for about 10 seconds and viola! These days, we love all things convenient and mess-free!!

Monday Meanderings and Meal Planner

2008-05-26T19:08:00.002-05:00

Back on track- maybe...

After an afternoon in the children's e.r., an IRS debacle, some dental issues, a broken car window (2 weeks after taking comprehensive insurance off), Jonah's birthday and school parties, and some other let downs and disappointments I think we may be able to have a "normal" week. Preschool is officially out for the summer so the boys and I are looking forward to just being lazy this coming week and splashing around in the sprinkler and kiddie pool (I don't think I could handle all 3 of them at a big pool yet all alone). I have a daily schedule for them all planned out and I'm back on track with my menu planning.
We have 8 more weeks before Olivia arrives and we haven't even begun on her room. It is so funny how much things change from child to child. Cole's nursery was complete, organized, and stocked by month 6. I probably won't have Olivia's complete until after she comes home.
In the name of accountability, here is our planned weekly menu:

Monday

Black Bean Soup with Tortillas

Tuesday

Steak; Sweet Potatoes; Caesar Salad

Wednesday

Marinated Grilled Chicken Breasts; Sautéed Spinach; Croissants with Honey Butter

Thursday

Shrimp Fettuccini Alfredo; Steamed Broccoli

Friday

Pizza and Cookies (A.K.A. Old Faithful)

Happy Birthday!!

2008-05-23T08:43:00.001-05:00

Happy 3 rd birthday, Jonah!

You have had an amazing year and have grown so much! Mommy and Daddy are so proud of you and thankful God has trusted us with you!

Two-fer Tuesday

2008-05-20T12:51:00.004-05:00

We have NOT had a good week- and it's only Tuesday! It's pretty depressing so I'll spare you the details, but my two-fer Tuesday is:

Two Lessons Learned From Trial and Tribulation

1) Never underestimate your children. They are brilliant, brave, and fiercely resilient. Under the most stressful of circumstances they surprise you the most with how encouraging, loving, and helpful they can be.

2) It constantly amazes me how God takes me to the brink of my breaking point and reels me back in. He is stretching me spiritually and psychologically at the same time this physical body of mine is being stretched out of whack. He constantly reminds me how faithful and steadfast He is above all. Just when I want to crawl into a ball and disappear, His light shines through and brightens my day. Thank you, Jesus!

TA DA!

2008-05-15T22:38:00.005-05:00

Jennisa, once again, has done an awesome bloggie make-over! We needed an update- BADLY; and with Olivia coming in July, we had to do a total redo. No longer will it be just "The boys and me." I will share with another female and, hopefully, have some additional girl power. The only other female in the house is our dog, Emma. She has gotten pretty lazy and bored with the boys AND me. Thanks, Jennisa! You rock and are awesome at what you do!

P.S. A shout out goes to Leslie, too! She came up with "Jeffcoat Jungle" which, consequently, is the same theme I am doing the boys' room.

Thursday 13

2008-05-15T12:26:00.002-05:00

13 Questions a Mom of More Than One Toddler Asks Daily
(at least in the Jeffcoat house):

1- When did I start preparing 2 different dinners?

2- Would I rather eat or sleep?

3- Are we really watching this movie again?

4- There are no kids in here, why is this movie still on?

5- It's quiet; what are they up to?

6- Do we have milk?

7- Does anyone have to use the potty before we go?

8- Who can I find to babysit (hard to come by when you have 3)?

9- Where is your brother?

10- How much longer until nap time?

11- Should I run over there now that he has fallen or see if he gets up right away?

12- How many p-nut butter and jelly sandwiches can they really eat in one week ( I really do cook, they just always prefer a sandwich instead)?

13- Do they need a bath tonight?

Monday Meanderings

2008-05-12T13:56:00.002-05:00

Despite the lack of posts, things have been a hoppin' at the Jeffcoat House. Outside of the daily upkeep of 3 very active boys and an always on-the-go husband, we've been busy ready to house the boys in one room. My father-in-law came down and he and CJ built triple bunk beds. Our next adventure was finding a large enough dresser (at least 6 equal size drawers) that was affordable for us. Since CJ and I have had much of our furniture handed down to us from family or given to us as gifts, we didn't realize how expensive quality furniture is! WOWSA! We have found one, so now it's a matter of getting it to our house. I'm an antique furniture nerd and I was so excited to find this dresser- I love it! CJ is not so excited because this piece will be added to our other pieces which are horrendous for him to move. Anyway, all of that to say, we aren't done yet in the boys' room, therefore, we have not even begun on the nursery!

So, all extra time has been used to clean out, find creative storage solutions, and beginning to get things in some order my type A self can deal with; oh, and naps! I'll try to do better.

Monday Meal Planner

2008-04-28T11:20:00.002-05:00

Monday
Quick Salsa Chicken; Mexicorn; Taco Breadsticks

Tuesday
Summer Harvest Omelet; Corn Bread Muffins; Strawberry Tart

Wednsday
Crock Pot Steak Roast w/ Mushroom Gravy; Glazed Carrots; Macaroni & Cheese

Thursday
Bar-b-q Sausage Kabobs with Rice; My Gramie's Cole Slaw (a little mayo with a lot of vinegar)

Friday
Pizza and Cookies- YUMMMMMMMMY!!!!

Thursday 13

2008-04-24T13:02:00.007-05:00

13 Ways My 4-year Old May Be Smarter Than Me

1- When I’m trying to put a movie in the DVD player before my morning caffeine fix he says, “It’s ok, Mommy, I’ll get it for you.”

2- When I’m driving down the road and he tells me to turn right to go to the store and I have to think about it because I still am not sure of my right and left sometimes (Don’t laugh! That is a sign of brilliance!)- and he is correct.

3- When I’m fussing a lot he looks at me, cocks his head to the side and says, “I don’t think Jesus likes your attitude, Mommy.”

4- When he reminds me that I promised to get him ice cream 2 days ago and I can’t even remember what I did that same morning.

5- When I’m trying to turn on the oscillating fan and he reminds me it has to be plugged in first.

6- When I give him a cup of milk and the threads on the lid of the cup aren’t lined up so the top leaks, he unscrews it and puts it on correctly.

7- When we discuss the story of Jesus dying on the cross and coming back to life, he mentions people Jesus died for whom I haven't thought about in ages (and he hasn’t seen in over a year!).

8- He reminds me to feed and water the dog.

9- When I am putting on his socks and shoes and trying to keep up with his brothers too, he reminds me the socks go on first.

10- He knows what button to push to turn on the 3-wheeler his poppy rides him on and how to put it in reverse (This one actually makes me a little nervous)- and I only know how to go forward.

11- He tells me it’s time to go to the dentist because he now has all of his teeth.

12- He knows he isn’t supposed to get out if the bed once he down for he night so he asks me to get him water, then to turn on his night light, then to get his pillow (which is usually buried in the toy box), then to get him a drink of water. I finally say, “Why don’t you do all of this yourself?” He replies, “You told me not to get up, Mommy.”

13- I asked him when he was going to start wiping himself after he poops and he smiles and says, “But you do such a great job.” He knows it gets me every time!

Happy 4^th birthday, Coley! Mama and Daddy are so proud of you and all you have accomplished this year (read about it in your notebook)! We look so forward to watching God continue to grow and bless you. We are so grateful He trusted us to be your parents! We are honored you are our son!

Here We Go

2008-04-23T22:42:00.001-05:00

Controversy updated HERE.

Wordless Wednesday

2008-04-23T12:16:00.000-05:00

Menu Plan Monday

2008-04-21T14:23:00.002-05:00

This week's menu is short and sweet. We have a lot going on with Cole's birthday and me working in the boys' room getting it ready to house all 3 of them- can you say "triple bunk beds!" I'll post pictures of the room when it's all done. Hopefully soon so I can start working on the nursery.

Monday
Smorgasboard of left overs from previous week

Tuesday
Lemon baked chicken; Fresh green beans; dinner rolls

Wednesday
Grilled steak; sweet potatoes; Caesar salad

Thursday
Chuck E. Cheese for Cole's birthday

Friday
Homemade vegetable soup (in the crockpot, of course); corn bread

Sunday Funny

2008-04-20T20:08:00.002-05:00

Multi-tasking at its best!

The boys and I were going through the drive thru at "McSonic" as Cole calls it (Actually, it's just Sonic). Jonah announces he has to pee pee. He has done so well being potty trained, but, he does not give himself much time when he realizes he has to go. Usually, when he tells me he has to pee pee, we have all of about 30 seconds to get to the bathroom, pull his pants down, and get on the toilet. Obviously, we were going to be more than 30 seconds in the drive thru line. I frantically look around outside of the van for an inconspicuous place for him to pee- no good. This Sonic didn't even even have any decent bushes! I had just taken our potty inside that I usually keep in the van for just sort of occasion. I had resolved myself that I was going to have to clean up pee pee out of the van carpet. Then, I spotted it. It was beautiful! In the passenger seat was a Styrofoam cup left over from Friday night dinner. I told Jonah to get himself out of his seat belt and come up front with me (we are still in the drive thru line). I pulled his pants down and told him to point into the cup and pee pee.

So, here we are: I have my right hand holding the cup while my fore finger is "helping Jonah's aim" and my left hand on the steering wheel while my foot lets off the brake so we can pull up and I give the speaker our order. There has to some award for that, right? Jonah successfully pees in the cup and all is well. When he got back to his seat, Cole says to him, "Good job, Jonah. You've just pee peed like a real big boy." I'm not sure what that meant; but it sounded cute.

Menu Plan Monday

2008-04-14T10:33:00.003-05:00

Ok, so last week's menu did not come into fruition all of the way. I'm going to try harder to get to the grocery store this afternoon to get everything I need. If you see something I had on the menu for last week, it means I didn't make it.

Monday
Black Bean Soup w/ Tortilla Chips

Tuesday
Crock Pot Hash over Rice; Tossed Salad

Wednesday
Mexican Chicken Casserole

Thursday
Bar-B-Q ribs (in the crock pot); Mashed Potatoes; Steamed Broccoli

Friday
Pizza

Saturday
Mom's Lasagna

Sunday
Left-Overs

Thursday 13

2008-04-10T09:42:00.002-05:00

So after last week's horrible day (it has been much better, thanks), I feel I must remind all how precious my energetic boys can be and usually are.

13 Sweet Things the Boys are Doing Right Now

1- Cole is really into complementing obscure things. Last week I was wearing a tank top and he said, “Mama, I like your breasts. They look pretty.” Umm, thanks.

2- Jonah likes to remind me how he is listening by saying things like, “I obeying, Mama.”

3- Judah loves to bring stuff to you- and he brings it all!

4- Cole likes to look for bugs and share the caterpillars with his brothers- even though he knows there is a high likelihood they will be squished. He is trying to teach them to be gentle. I hear him saying, "Now don't hurt him. We have to put him on a tree to be with his family."

5- Jonah says, “Thank you” for EVERYTHING. “Thank you for my milk, Mama.” “Thank you for handing me my blanket, Mama.” “Thank you for wiping me, Mama.”

6- Judah likes to cuddle. He’ll sit in the crook of your arm and watch TV. He also DARES either of his brothers to come over and try to get on my lap while he is there. It’s not pretty. He's small, but he's a scrapper.

7- Cole is cleaning up his toys and dishes without being asked- some of the time.

8- Jonah will walk up to me at any given point (even after I’ve just finished fussing at them) and pucker his lips and say, “Gimme a fiss, Mama.”

9- Judah likes to bury his head into CJ’s chest. It’s really cute and CJ can’t help but immediately stop what he’s doing and kiss him.

10- Cole is doing more for his brothers. He will get them a cookie if he is getting himself one or lay out their blankets on the floor when they are having “picnics” in the living room.

11- Jonah, after saying prayers at night, always says, “Mama, I want you to sleep with me.” It’s so cute I can’t hardly stand to say, “Hmmm, no, but I love you.”

12- Judah is doing so much better with our dog, Emma. He still likes to poke her eyeballs and pull her tail, but he is kissing her so much more and “petting” her- which actually is more like smacking her on top of her head over and over. We have made some progress.

13- They are all sleeping in a bit later which is AWESOME!!! The past few mornings they have not gotten up before 7:30- that is a HUGE deal in our house. My early riser usually gets up around 6:30ish- UGH! Thanks, Boys!

Steppin' on Some Toes

2008-04-08T14:09:00.002-05:00

This is what happens when you don't have TV to watch.

Click here for some controversy.

Monday Menu Planner

2008-04-06T13:45:00.005-05:00

I've seen this idea on several other blogs and I thought posting my menu would be great accountability for me. I enjoy cooking (not baking), but entering into my 3rd trimester, it's getting easier just to fix p-nut butter sandwiches for supper. CJ is so easy to please in the kitchen, he would totally fine with me doing that. Since this is a digital scrap book for my children, I want them to know their mom did not make them grow up on p-nut butter sandwiches- no matter how tempting!

Monday
Chicken Quesadillas; Refried Beans

Tuesday
Cranberry Pot Roast Over Rice; Vegetable Medley

Wednesday
Lo Mein with Ham; Steamed Broccoli

Thursday
Shepard’s Pie; Green Beans

Friday
Pizza- this is an always at our house

Saturday
Left Overs and/ or sandwiches (maybe p-nut butter ;))

Sunday
Homemade Hash and Rice; Garden Salad

Sunday Funny

2008-04-06T13:28:00.003-05:00

I have discovered my post pardum work out!

Check out this product that is apparently actually being sold via infomercial. If you get one first, let me know how you like it- LOL!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dH_Xs-lIrtk

Day From %@#$!!

2008-04-05T07:23:00.005-05:00

Look at these precious faces!

You would never think every now and again, when I least expect it, fang teeth grow out and horns come out from behind their ears. Yesterday was one those days they showed up. It was probably one of the worst days for behavior in the Jeffcoat House we have had in a long time. At one point, I went into my bathroom and shut the door and just cried. I felt like such a loser for feeling like I was losing my mind and like I was losing control. After I pulled myself together, I came out of my bathroom only to see Cole pinching Judah's cheeks and pulling his head back and forth! At that moment, for a split second, I could understand how some parents lose their tempers with their sweet blessings! I picked up Judah and put him in his room and closed his door. I grabbed Cole's hand and led him to his room and told him to get into his bed and not to get out of it and did the same for Jonah. I went to each of them individually and dressed them all the way to their shoes and socks while they stayed in their beds. They had to remain in their beds until I came to get them to put them in the van. We went through the drive-thru at McDonald's for lunch (it was only 11) as I explained why we could not get out and play as we had planned to do earlier. We went home, ate lunch, and I put them all to bed where they stayed until CJ came home.

I have decided today is going to be a better day- as we are cooped up inside with all of the rain!

Thursday 13

2008-04-03T09:08:00.002-05:00

13 Differences Between My First Pregnancy and My Last

1- I'm so much more relaxed.

2- Lack of appetite.

3- I listen to my body more.

4- Low weight gain.

5- I'm more achy earlier on.

6- My hair is almost always in a ponytail this go around.

7- I'm eating more vegetables- I actually crave them.

8- My cravings- with my first it was meat and potatoes (and Big Macs).

9- I'm not as weepy/ sensitive.

10- More enlarged mucus glands- my allergies have been awful and I typically don't even have allergies!

11- This has been the sickest I have EVER been while pregnant. It's been a toughie.

12- I'm so much more tired this go around. Some say it's becasue we have 3 toddlers; I think I'm just getting older and it's harder to bounce back.

13- Which leads me to the last one: I'm getting older and it's tougher to recover and bounce back!

Potty Training Success

2008-03-31T20:05:00.002-05:00

Jonah is officially potty trained during the day! I have to admit, I was a little leery of the different approach I took, but it worked so much better and faster than the one I took with Cole (a.k.a. the "PottyWise" approach), but that could be attributed to the differing personalities too. It also helped that we went nowhere during the week so he could learn how it "feels" to have to go and then go. The first day was not so fun with about half a dozen accidents, but by Friday (only 3 days later), Jonah had no accidents. He made it through church Sunday morning and then playing at Chick-Fil-A on Monday. The real test was Mother's Morning Out this morning for 3 hours. If he was going to have an accident, it would be today. Nope. He did fantastic! Now if I could just get that night time diaper gone...

Thursday 13

2008-03-27T12:24:00.002-05:00

When we went to Summerville to have our “Bunny Pictures” made, the Baileys and Wrights invited us to go eat with them. They have precious, sweet, contained girls. We have 3 boys. I wanted to give some insight as to why we RARELY- if ever- go to a sit down restaurant with our crew.

13 Reasons I Can Not Take My Boys Out to Restaurants

1- We can’t afford it. This is not an implication of being broke, but it is expensive for us to eat out. It easily costs us over $20 for all 5 of us to eat just at McDonald’s.

2- Cole and Jonah think it is absolutely hilarious when they burp; therefore, guess what I have to listen to while we are eating. And don’t give me “Train the child” stuff- as soon as I fuss at them for fake burping and explain we don’t do that, they burp for real and start busting out laughing!

3- CJ can not handle extra noise. Really, it drives him bonkers when we go out and the boys are just talking loudly. He loses his patience pretty quickly.

4- The tables aren’t big enough. When everyone is seated and all of the meal comes, plus drinks, plus napkins, plus condiments- there is no room to eat!

5- I always feel so badly for leaving a huge mess on the floor and table. I used to clean the floor myself, but I can’t bend down very well right now. I do try to stack the dishes, though.

6- Something always gets spilled. It’s just inevitable. There are days when I wish my boys were catatonic for an hour or two, but it just ain’t happening; they are busy, expressive, and curious.

7- They always want what the other brother wants.

8- Have you met Judah?

9- They always finish eating before we do. No coloring page is going to hold my boys’ attentions. Nope: puzzles, table games, or books won’t do the job either. My boys like to be in the know and involved.

10- They love an audience. What better audience than a bunch of strangers we will never see again at a restaurant. So they will dance and sing and have an all out WWE match!

11- They like to eat sugar packets. Yeah, I know, gross. But I usually have to hide the fake sugar and sugar packets from the table.

12- The waitress/ waiter usually gets something wrong on our order b/c of all of the business at our table. It’s not always loud, just little hands everywhere and moving around. I’m sure it’s a sight for someone who isn’t used to it. We don’t know any other way.

13- I don’t have the energy. Really, it’s exhausting for me to take them on an outing like that. I use less energy just going through a drive-through and going home to eat.

We know this is just a season, so it doesn’t bother us. Our friends think we have lost our minds, but the true ones invite us out regardless- those brave souls!

Potty Training- Round Two

2008-03-26T09:14:00.003-05:00

I must admit my least favorite parental chore is potty training. It's very messy and just gross! However, with Olivia coming in July, I really wanted to get Jonah potty trained so we would only have 2 diaper-ees at a time. So we started Tuesday (I meant to start Monday, but forgot). Instead of making a big deal about it like I did with Cole (getting a new potty, giving him lots to drink, giving out candy, etc.) I just put some underwear on him and said, "We aren't wearing diapers except for nap time and bed time. When you have to pee-pee or poopey, we're using the potty." Then we have lots of praise when he uses the potty! We have Spring Break this week and made no plans so we could be home all week hoping it would stick. Yesterday we had about 6 accidents and this morning we've had 1- but it's only 10:15. I'm hoping with Cole using the potty it will encourage Jonah. But those of you who know my Jonah knows he isn't easily influenced by others. These are the times I hate my camera is broken because he is so cute walking around with his Lightening McQueen big boy pants with his little belly poking over the waistband a little (Jonah has my appetite) and his new Lightening McQueen croc-like shoes! Just envision it. Darling! Wish us success. I don't want to be doing this with a nursing new born.

Easter Fun!

2008-03-25T07:10:00.002-05:00

Most of us were well enough to enjoy Easter this year. CJ ended up getting what we think was the flu so he was quarantined. The rest of us enjoyed the yummy food and candy- ALL DAY. We started at my parents for breakfast and then headed to the lake to my grandparents for lunch. The boys ran for 3 solid hours. My uncle did manage to capture Judah on his camera phone while he stopped long enough to eat some cotton candy in the grass. I'm sure some grass got mixed in along with the candy- but the Jeffcoat boys don't discriminate when it comes to candy. They would eat it covered in mud!

UGH!!!

2008-03-21T09:09:00.002-05:00

That is pretty much how we can sum up this week at the Jeffcoat house. Last weekend CJ was gone to drill and the boys were ALL sick. I thought it was actually going to be a slow weekend until Judah woke up with a 103.7 degree temperature Sunday morning at 2 AM. We didn't get back to sleep after that. All of us slept on and off throughout Sunday. CJ got home Sunday afternoon exhausted as well after a very long night himself. Monday and Tuesday I spent in the bed or on the couch ALL DAY. CJ played Mr. Mom and kept the boys fed, clothed, and drugged as they were all off again/ on again with fever. When Wednesday rolled around, I was better, Cole was better and off to school, but Jonah and Judah were still plagued. Poor guys.

So here we are on Friday and everyone is fever free although still a little snotty. My house is a tee-total wreck, laundry is piled up and so are the dishes, and I'm blogging. A girl has to have priorities! There is good news, though: My sister-cousin's baby is due this Sunday and we are so excited about Emily Claire's birth. AND last night I got a call from my very good girl friend who is expecting her 2nd child soon too. Of course it's a girl and we are SOOOO excited and wish the best!!! We can't wait to meet our new baby girls! So,I guess I need to get some domestic stuff done before something starts growing.

You Vs. Your Spouse

2008-03-15T13:37:00.005-05:00

Carrie sent this in an email and I thought it was cute. Since this is our family blog, and I rarely say a whole lot about "The Man" in the house, I thought this would be fun to post. Copy and paste and post it on your blog too!

1. Who eats more?
Right now CJ b/c I haven't had much of an appetite; but usually, I can out eat him.

2. Who said "I love you" first?
CJ and then I just looked at him.

3. How long have you been together?
This August we will have been married 9 years- WOWSA! We were "together" for about a year and a half before that.

4. Who sings better?
CJ definitely. He actually has a nice voice. I am tone deaf!

5. Who's older?:
Me, Baby! By about 3 months.

6. Who's smarter?
CJ is WAY smarter than me; however, I see things from a completely different perspective than him which gives him insight he did not have before.

7. Who's temper is worse?
Hmmmm, that is a toughie. I get upset quicker. It takes a lot to make CJ mad, but when he is, forget talking or reasoning with him for about 24 hours.

8. Who does the laundry?
Me; but CJ will wash his own stuff if there is something he needs I haven't gotten to yet.

9. Who does the dishes?
Usually me; but since our dishwasher is broken, he has done them a few times. I think they started to smell and he couldn't take it. :)

10. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?
CJ; he wants to be closer to the door in case we ever have an intruder.

11. Who snores?
I do more , but we both have been known to.

12. Who's hair is longer?
Mine totally. CJ grew his hair out when he was a teenager and he had a man whistle at him at the mall (becasue he was so pretty). He cut it pretty soon after that and says he won't ever grow it out again. LOL!

13. Who is better with the computer?
That is SOOOO CJ; I would still be using a word processor and rotary phone if it weren't for him.

14. Do you have pets?:
Do our kids count? They pretend to be animals sometimes. We do have our dog, Emma.

15. Who pays the bills?
CJ pays them; I remind him when they are due.

16. Who cooks dinner?
Me, me, me- except on Valentine's Day. CJ cooks and cleans then.

17. Who drives when you are together?
It's usually CJ, but I will if he has something he wants to do while we are driving.

18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?:
CJ always pays.

19. Who is the most stubborn?:
Another toughie.. I'm gonna go with CJ on this one. I can be reasoned with, but once CJ has his mind made up, there is no stopping him.

20. Who is the first one to admit when they're wrong?
Me- see above answer.

21. Who's parents do you see more?
Mine totally. We see CJ's mom MAYBE once a year. Yeah, she lives here in Columbia.

22. Who named your pets?
I think I named the girls and he has named the boys.

23. Who kissed who first?
He did, but the first time it was just a peck to say good bye. The next time, I think he did too. I can't remember that one.

24. Who asked who out?:
CJ and I didn't date. We always went out with friends and when we believed God wanted us to pursue a deeper court ship, we talked about it and it was a mutual decision.

26. Who's more sensitive?
HA HA HA! Me totally!

27. Who's taller?
CJ- 5'5= me, 6'1= him

29. Who has more siblings?
We both only have one each. He a younger sister and me a younger brother.

30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
CJ does; but when something comes up I believe in enough to stand up to him on, he usually takes me very seriously.

Foundation Friday

2008-03-14T08:07:00.003-05:00

Thursday 13

2008-03-13T09:31:00.003-05:00

13 Things I Can Not Get Enough of Right Now

1- Sleep- Really, I think I could sleep for days!

2- Cereal and milk- I would eat these for all meals if I could

3- Sweatpants/ gauchos- My mom's LEAST favorite part of me being pregnant. She hates gauchos!

4- A clean enough house- Never gonna happen in this season

5- Water- My pee is almost clear, yet, I still can't get enough!

6- Mascara- Something to make me look awake!

7- My super soft red house coat- Again, the fashion diva I am. I actually use this as a blanket when I'm napping.

8- Lost- I got hooked on this while pregnant with Judah. CJ and I would lay in the bed and watch the old episodes to catch up. Now, I can only watch one a week- sad.

9- Air fresheners/ candles burning- My ole factory senses are crazy! I can smell trash with a new bag in the can.

10- De-cluttering- WHOO HOO! I am getting rid of the boy clothes tonight! I hope that ultra sound tech was right.

11- CJ’s pillow- I got used to sleeping on this when he was working nights, and now I can't have it anymore and can't find one just like it! It's so fluffy!

12- Obsessing over my hormone chin hair- yes, I have this one witch hair that grows from the corner of my chin when I'm pregnant. Thankfully, it's light-colored and soft so it doesn't protrude out, but still. I'm constantly looking to see if it's grown back yet so I can pluck it!

13- Hot fudge cake sundae with peanut butter from Sonic- I gotta figure out how to make these myself with way fewer calories! Also, Oreo cookies. It's sad they are now fun spring colors b/c it makes me want them even more! I haven’t gained any weight so far, I think this month’s visit will be a little different!

Wordless Wednesday

2008-03-11T21:17:00.002-05:00

Foundation Friday

2008-03-08T00:04:00.005-05:00

“I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him.” 1 Samuel 1:27

We have a healthy baby girl on the way. Olivia Neil’s measurements look good, she has a strong heart beat, and is very active.

May God bless you and watch over you.

May God shine His face toward you and show you favor.

May God be favorably disposed toward you,

And may He grant you peace.

Thursday 13

2008-03-06T10:15:00.001-05:00

13 Ways I Am Getting Ready for Warmer Weather

1- Switching my bed linens. Thanks to Les I got some white sheets which are SO much cooler. All I had was a set of dark sheets.

2- I’m trying to sit outside more to get some sun. I’m a little pasty!

3- Thinking about going shorter with the ‘do; but I am prego- and the my hair may not cooperate as it should.

4- Shaving my legs. That’s right, I can count on one hand how many times I shave my legs during the winter. That’s how we roll here.

5- Bathing my dog more. She is losing her winter coat.

6- Slowly switching my long sleeves for my short sleeves in my closet.

7- I packed the boys’ coats up last weekend.

8- Rubbing on the coconut foot cream at night getting ready for constant wear of flip flops.

9- Trying to keep my toe nails clean. That’s a little tough with the protruding belly!

10- Cooking lighter meals at night.

11- Cleaning out the fireplace and replacing the wood with some flowers- fake ones of course, because I don’t keep those things alive!

12- Getting my white shoes ready to wear after Easter. I’m glad Easter is early this year (Yes, I follow the “Grandma Rule” of not wearing white shoes between Labor Day and Easter. I can’t help it, it’s ingrained. And, no, I don’t do “winter white.”)!

13- Finishing up indoor stuff so I can focus on doing some outdoor yard work- minus planting stuff, see #11.

Wordless Wednesday

2008-03-05T12:49:00.003-05:00

Newborn Jonah in deep thought.

What a Weekend!

2008-03-04T14:57:00.002-05:00

We had a very busy and exhausting weekend! Friday night we got o go see the Playhouse Disney Live show thanks to our awesome Mimi! The show was a little tortuous for me, but the boys really enjoyed it. Then we spent the night at a hotel with our super duper friends like it was a co-ed slumber party at the preschool level. We all got to see how immodest my Cole is as he had no problems running around his "Princess Abby" with no clothes on. Thankfully, Ms. Leslie thought it was funny too (I hope!) The room had 2 queen size beds and the boys I shared one which actually went well- sans Judah. I got more sleep than I thought I would with only one set of feet (Jonah) in my belly :). Saturday morning was breakfast at the hotel (anywhere I don't have to cook and clean is alright with me) and then off to the ba-zoo! Notice the man-grip Cole has on Abby!

My camera is still out so these pics were courtesy of Ms. Leslie (The one of Judah was actually at Chuck E. Cheese's a few weeks ago; but we couldn't leave him out).

Sunday Funny

2008-03-02T20:06:00.001-05:00

The Woodpecker Might have to go!

Foundation Friday

2008-02-28T22:08:00.002-05:00

This is John 16:33, but the entire chapter of 16 is great (read it here). I am amazed how often I run into strong believers who really believe they are above having hard times. It's as though they have risen above not knowing which direction God wants for them, or going through a season of need, or even just being spiritually dry. Have we forgotten we live in a FALLEN world, the same one Satan was given rule over- HELLO!?!? Yet, we expect to be better than "God with skin on" and always know what to do next or even from where our next meal comes. I think the enemy has trapped us in our pride way more than we like to admit. NOTHING is attained on our own efforts. Yes, we will have many trials in this life. If you're aren't struggling on some level, I would ask who you're serving. Why would God make it so comfortable here that we would not long to go home? Hmmmmmm...

Wordless Wednesday

2008-02-27T06:24:00.004-05:00

My "Wordless Wednesdays" are NEVER wordless. I need to think of a new name for it for me. Anyway, remember these little darlings?!

Meet the Newest Addition..

2008-02-26T11:08:00.006-05:00

to the Jeffcoat House.

We have known for a while we were headed in the minivan direction. I mean, we loved our SUV, but seriously, gas is $3.00 a gallon!! There is no way we were going to spend close to $100 a week to fill up (yes, it costs that much for a V-8 like our Expedition was)! So last year I actually started talking about "the minivan" to CJ. We got rid of the pricey Expedition when we moved to Lexington and have been driving a Taurus. It wasn't ideal, but we all fit and it was economical. When we found out we were prego, we knew the car was not going to work for us much longer- we began praying for God's provision. We are living on less than a quarter of our previous salary which in no way was going to afford us a SAFE minivan, much less to go back into a large enough SUV- but with God all things are possible (Luke 1:37) and we know He has plans to prosper us (Jeremiah 29:11).

Lo, and behold, we received a super generous gift that allowed us to purchase a van. PRAISE BE TO JESUS! We had been doing research for quite some time so we had become very familiar with what was in our price range and what the consumer reports said. Much to CJ's dismay (having been in the car industry) I had been speaking with a wholesaler already. However, CJ was put to rest when the son called and said, "My dad overheard us talking when you were in here the other day and went over the weekend and found this van for you. It is a one-owner van and it is loaded. We are going to leave it out for you to come by to see it and take to your mechanic for a look over. If he finds anything, let us know, and we'll fix it. I believe this is the one for your family."
PRAISE JESUS AGAIN!

Sure enough our long-standing family mechanic looked it over and not only gave it an ok, but said, "You're getting a really good deal with this." Yahoo!

The boys have already chosen which seat is theirs and they are both in the very back which means great news for my ears! We are all safe and not trying to figure out who will get strapped to the luggage rack when the baby comes!

CHEATER!!!!!

2008-02-22T20:13:00.003-05:00

CJ was accused of being the worst thing to a child Cole's age just beginning to play board games tonight- A CHEATER! We had not played this game in a while because the boys just weren't doing well with it and it drove me nuts. Apparently, Cole's class just brought it out and it has begun again. We played tonight as a family after Judah went to bed. Cole and Jonah were doing quite well until we had been playing for about 20 minutes. The attention span wore off and the busy-bodyness began. Cole took it upon himself to move Jonah's "man" several times and we really didn't know where it was supposed to be. But then Jonah drew the double blue- and it was on! Because Jonah couldn't reach the game piece easily, CJ moved it for him and it put him to the end of the game and thus made him the winner. YAY! CJ and I were SO glad it was over, but Cole broke into hysteria over the fact "Daddy cheated by moving Jonah's man to the end!" It really was a sight as he carried on throwing himself onto the floor and pitching a major fit. As bad as it was, I laughed at him and proceeded to put Jonah to bed. Cole worked his way back to the bedroom and when he calmed down, I explained to him how it all worked. He continued to sniff a little (I mean the tantrum had reached head- spinning, vomiting pea soup proportions), but he finally did settle down and now is asleep.
These crazy 3 year old emotions are nutty! And to think, we'll have to go through this again at puberty! Yahoo!!!

Foundation Friday

2008-02-21T20:21:00.001-05:00

Thursday 13

2008-02-20T22:13:00.001-05:00

13 Ways You Know You Live With All Boys

1- You’re always making something to drink.

2- They are way more interested in your breasts than you are.

3- Rarely are there left- overs for dinner.

4- There are random pieces of clothes laying about- in obscure places!

5- The soap on the bathroom soap dish is always dirty.

6- The front door is constantly left open (oops, that is from me :) ).

7- You ask your friends what quiet sounds like.

8- The commode always needs flushing (and usually wiping).

9- You carry a bag of wipes where ever you go, because, really, all it takes is one Hershey’s kiss and there is a major mess!

10- You find yourself repeating the same directions at least 3 times in a row before you’re even acknowledged.

11- You are usually running to rescue the dog from some sort of “experiment” involving jumping off of the bed or rope- maybe both!

12- Clothes are being taken off as soon as you open the front door (could explain #4).

13- Every time you step on a toy it’s a monster truck or a LEGO block!

And I LOVE IT!

Wordless Wednesday

2008-02-19T21:33:00.004-05:00

This was our 10 year high school reunion planning committee in 2004. I can't believe it will almost be 15 years soon!!!!!

Sunday Funny

2008-02-17T21:21:00.001-05:00

This would be my Judah.

Yeah, yeah, yeah...

2008-02-15T21:03:00.002-05:00

We've been a little busy, a little sick, and way tired so blogging has not been top priority. Plus, most people who read this call or email me anyway to see what is up. We will slowly get back on track here and start posting regularly again. Then again, maybe not so much. To be continued...

Planning Ahead

2008-01-11T10:11:00.001-05:00

The other morning we were watching Playhouse Disney and the commercial came on where they were promoting the Disney Princess video release. They have all of these little girls dressed up in their favorite princess costume.

Cole says,"When I get bigger and get my yellow race car I'm gonna go pick up my Princess Abby and take her to the princess show."

I said, "You know you're going to have to talk to her daddy, Mr. Kane, about that."

Cole replied, "Hmmm; that might be a problem."

I cracked up!

Thursday 13

2008-01-10T10:44:00.000-05:00

13 Things Said When We Told People We Were Pregnant:

1- "You have just taken my breath away."

2- "Are you kidding?"

3- "Are you serious?"

4- "I guess CJ wasn’t on lock down "(My personal favorite.)

5- "Are you guys sure you’re reading the directions correctly "(on the birth control)?

6- " Where are you gonna put all of those kids?"

7- "So, you think you got this figured out?"

8- "What are we going to do with Judah" (asked by Cole)?

9- "Now probably isn’t the best time for that"(REALLY?!?!!?).

10- "We really need a girl to spice things up around here" (There are NO great-grand girls yet on either side of the family.).

11- "You have your own play group."

12- "You must love being pregnant." (My response: “NO, but I love babies!”)

13- "You may as well go for another after this one" (My response: “NO!).

Our Night at the Museum

2008-01-08T20:11:00.000-05:00

We went to the Edventure Museum tonight and it was AMAZING! The boys have been there before with my parents, but it was CJ's and my first time. I could not believe how long the boys stayed at each station. We were there for an hour and a half and didn't even make it off of the first floor (it has 3)! Everything was kid-friendly and hands on. When you walk in there is this gargantuan statue of a 10-year old boy you (well, the kids) can crawl up into. You see his digestive system and slide down his colon- yum! Cole loved it, Jonah would not even go there. Judah was stuck in the stroller, but I believe he would have attacked it. We will definitely make this a monthly "ed"-venture!!

Thursday 13

2008-01-02T19:22:00.000-05:00

My little Judah has been sick since we have moved to Lexington; either with colds, runny nose, or the worst has been the 2 bouts of pneumonia. Those of you who know us, know none of our children have been sick for more than about 30 hours and none of them have ever been on antibiotics (we are kind of anti-medicine family). So anyway, racking my brain, the Lord reminded me maybe one of the reasons Judah has been so sick is my neglecting my prayer time- specifically over them. Before we moved, I made it a point to spend a minute or so praying over each of them separately. Since we have moved and I've gotten prego, not so much. So, I am sure it's not all spiritual but the Word does say, "Whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven..." (Matt. 18:18) and "Do not be anxious about anything but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus" (Philipians 4:6-7).
So, my list this week is 13 ways I pray for my kids.

1- Feeling loved and accepted.
2- Protection from sickness, disease, and harm
3- Attracting Godly friends and role models
4- Developing a hunger for the things of God
5- Honoring parents and resisting rebellion
6- Breaking down ungodly strongholds/ generational sins and curses
7- Having a love of learning
8- Finding the perfect mate
9- Seeking wisdom and discernment
10- Identifying God-given gifts and talents
11- Enjoying freedom from fear
12- Learning to speak life
13- Releasing my child into God's hands.

Most of these come straight from Stormie Omartian's book The Power of a Praying Parent. I highly recommend it. The chapters are short and to the point. It's a great bathroom reader.

Busted!

2007-12-27T16:29:00.000-05:00

My camera, that is. So no CHRISTmas pictures, no pictures of the new 'do (which is still long enough for a pony tail), and no random pics for now- not that I was any good at that anyway :). And now I must go be the consummate referee and make sure none of my children are bleeding since a couple of them are screaming. I'll post more later.

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like CHRISTmas...

2007-12-21T08:28:00.000-05:00

With all these babies!!

And now we are expecting #4!!!!!!

That’s right; you read it correctly (don’t try to rub your eyes).

I got the sneaky suspicion for the first time shortly after the boys and I had our little tummy bug. My queasiness never went away all of the way. Inside my heart of hearts, it was confirmed when I actually turned down a cup of coffee on a cold day. “WHAT?!?!?!?!” I said to myself. It cannot be. I mean I know our timing has been weird with the last 2 (Jonah= moving into a new house with a 1 year old in tow and Judah= the start of a new business and 2 toddlers in tow). Really, Lord? Seriously, my Jesus loves to laugh- AT ME! So now, when we are moving into a home smaller than one we have lived in since having children, CJ will be out of the house more than ever with a work and wacky school schedule, and my other boys are a year apart- and THE OLDEST IS 3- God chose this time to send us a precious gift of life (Because, yes, we were using birth control as we were with the last 2 pregnancies). How can I be upset about that?

Apparently, we are about 11 weeks along and due early July. No pressure to be bikini ready. Merry CHRISTmas to us!

Here we go!!!!

Santa Truth Thursday 13

2007-12-20T09:09:00.001-05:00

St. Nicholas statue

In our attempt to be honest with our children, we do not practice telling them Santa brings them presents. I don't want my children purposefully lying to me so I'm not going to purposefully lie to them- even if it goes against one of the largest commercial-driven campaigns. Instead, we are teaching them that Santa was a real man who lived a long time ago and loved Jesus. It was becasue of his love for Jesus he gave presents and now people like to dress up and pretend to be him. Cole says that Santa is coming from heaven to give presents out. We still have some work to do.
Having said all of that, I decided to do Thursday 13 of historical facts about Santa Clause:

1- His original name was Nicholas
2- He lived in modern day Turkey in 300 A.D.
3- He was orphaned at a young age from the plague
4- He was left a very large inheritance
5- He grew up in a monastery where he became the youngest priest at age 17
6- He did indeed give away his wealth, mostly to children, by tossing goodies down the chimney or through the window
7- He later became a bishop, hence the long robe and hat
8- After his death, the Catholic church made him a saint. When they began to celebrate Christmas (which was not always celebrated- but that is another blog), St. Nicholas was incorporated into the festivities.
9- In the 17th century the Dutch brought over their version of Sinter Klaas and gift-giving
10- In 1822 a poem was written which introduced the 8 reindeer by name and Santa Clause was given elf-like qualities (later known as "Twas the Night Before Christmas")
11- In 1863, Harper's magazine drew illustrations of Santa Clause in their Christmas editions which continued until the 1890's. Later beginning in 1931, Coca-cola created a new picture of Santa Clause every year for 33 years which is how we recognize him today.
12- In 1997, "Artist Robert Cenedella drew a painting of a crucified Santa Claus. It was displayed in the window of the New York's Art Students League and received intense criticism from some religious groups. His drawing was a protest. He attempted to show how Santa Claus had replaced Jesus Christ as the most important personality at Christmas time"
13- We too easily worship the created instead of the Creator.

Hey, Merry CHRISTmas!
1931 Coca-Cola Ad

Information Source: http://rumela.com/events/christmas_santa.htm

I Have the Go Ahead

2007-12-19T11:55:00.000-05:00

So apparently, in his old age, CJ is getting a bit more OCD. The other day I saw him wiping off the bathroom counters and mumbling to himself, "All of this hair!" Of course he is referring to mine. I am molting and my hair is longer than it has been since we got married. I haven't cut it short in 4 years because he has asked me not to. Something about women and long hair. So I say to him, "Honey, I can get my hair cut a little shorter if you think you'll like it because this molting is just going to get worse." So he says, "Go ahead, but not too short. I know you're having a hard time keeping it fixed anyway."
I wasn't sure how to take that last statement, but I know I have the go ahead to get my hair cut! So, my appointment is on Saturday and I'm trying to find some pics of some hair styles to take with me. I like that Buffie's hair, but that may be a little too short at first. Any suggestions?

Merry CHRISTmas!!

2007-12-17T15:55:00.000-05:00

..from the Jeffcoats

Most of you reading this have a lovely CHRISTmas card addressed and sitting on our desk. We really do wish you a very merry CHRISTmas, but I have not gotten the pictures made or the cards out. There just aren't enough hours in the day for me right now. Please don't think we left you off of our list- NEVER! We love you and wish you and yours a very happy birthday for Jesus! We wish you lots of blessings and hope we get to see you the first part of the new year!

13 Reasons Why I Love Leslie

2007-12-11T13:57:00.001-05:00

...because today is her birthday and NOT Thursday

1- She wears a smile almost all of the time.

2- She is a GREAT Mommy!

3- She is one of the most self-less people I know; but at the same time knows her boundaries.

4- She enjoys super hero stuff too!

6- You just feel at peace around her. She brings so much calmness with her. Even when she is bothered by something, she keeps the peace.

7- She NEVER has idle hands. She is either smocking, or giving herself a mani/ pedi (even during a movie), doing book work, sewing... Rarely have I seen her do nothing.

8- She knows the value of keeping her man happy!

9- She is the most dependable person I know.

10-I have not heard her say one negative thing about ANYONE- even when I wanted her too- (Hee, Hee!)

11- She does not criticize- even if you need to change your clothes. She just goes, "So, that's what you're wearing. Hmm."

12- She is an AWESOME cook! I mean, really, if Leslie made it, you can guarantee it is super-yummy.

13- She has the most amazing quiet strength about her. I have but once seen her get roweled up and snap back at a person (who deserved it); in defense of a family member.

Leslie,

I love you so much. God has blessed me greatly by bringing you into my life. The hardest thing about doing this list was I only did 13! I could have easily done 20 and more! I know it's your love for Jesus that keeps you faithful. I hope you have a splendid day and this year brings you more blessing than you can contain!

She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
"Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Psalm 31:24-30

Ahh Yeah

2007-12-02T19:11:00.001-05:00

Mista Lova-Lova!

It will be that Jonah we will have to watch out for. Every time he gets into trouble and I begin to explain why he's in trouble (aka fuss at him), before I even finish he says, "Mama, let me give you a fiss (kiss)."

There was Dasher and Dancer and Prancer...

2007-12-02T08:16:00.000-05:00

and we even had our own Rudolph!

Some of the girls and I did the Reindeer Run to benefit the Children's hospital at MUSC yesterday in downtown Charleston. We had so much fun! I got separated from everybody but had all of our 2 lb goody bags. Of course I couldn't just leave them so after all of the runners took off and I saw no one and then all of the walkers took off and I still saw no one, I decided to begin the 3 mile trek with our bags in tow. Thankfully, I found Melissa and her sweet family to walk with; and since they had Amelia's stroller, I got to relinquish my "Bag Lady" status. Oh, and let me just clarify and say I participated in the Reindeer Walk. BUT, Leslie, Buffie, and English all ran (English the ENTIRE way!!). I am so proud of them. It was great fun, albeit a little hectic at first. A few lessons learned from my first fund-raising 5 K event:

1- Pick up the packets THE NIGHT BEFORE
2- Don't separate from your group- EVER until the event starts. You won't find them.
3- Watch for the dog poo for this little shin-dig (No direct hits, but a couple of close calls).
4- STRETCH, STRETCH, STRETCH!

We are anxious for the next one!

Summing It Up

2007-12-02T08:08:00.000-05:00

Cole: "Mama, I'm gonna read you a story from my Jesus book" (a small New Testament Bible he got a harvest festival).

Me: "Sure. I would love that."

Cole: Opening Jesus book (upside down) and begins "A long time ago, Jesus lived in heaven. Then he told Noah to build a big boat. All of a sudden, Jonah was in the whale! And you know what's gonna happen, Mama?"

Me: "No, what?"

Cole: "Noah sent out the dove and when the dove came back, all of the animals got off the big boat. The end.
Tomorrow, we'll read another story out of my Jesus book about the race car."

Me: "I can't wait!"

Thursday 13

2007-11-15T09:01:00.000-05:00

13 Reasons I Haven't Blogged in a Loooooong Time

1- Judah has had pnuemonia
2- Jonah was fighting a fever the next week
3- Our Internet connection has been in and out (I think due to road construction)
4- My computer's wireless card is wicky wicky wack (I'm on my mom's computer right now)
5- We have been trying to get our homestead fixed
6- I am constantly picking up toys because my mom doesn't like the clutter (even though this place is a perpetual toy store because SHE buys all of this stuff ;) )
7- Laundry is never-ending especially having to have it done by the weekend so my mom can use the washer
8- Due to the ever-flowing of Pepsi and cookies the boys go to bed much later these days
9- The nap times are battles because the boys don't nap well in the same room
10- In my free time (HAHAHAHAHA!) I usually just want to take a nap
11- There hasn't been anything new going on to talk about (until recently with the boys' Thanksgiving show- post coming soon)
12- I have been helping my parents with bookwork for their company
13- If I do get on the computer I'm usually looking stuff up really quickly and then having to get off (see reasons above)

Thanks, you guys, for keeping tabs on me. I'm going to try to do better in keeping this thing updated. Love you!,

New Brother, Please

2007-10-17T06:26:00.000-05:00

Judah is most definitely becoming his own person. I didn't think it was possible, but he has more energy and spunk than either Cole or Jonah. He also is much more feisty. Judah most certainly can hold his own in the Jeffcoat House and occasionally picks his own fights; but being only 13 months, there is only so much discipline we can practice. His oldest brother is NOT impressed.
Cole was cooking with his Mimi and said, "I think we'll sell Judah, Mimi."
My mom was caught a little off guard and replied, "Why would we do that, Cole?"
"I'm ready for a new baby and he pinches and scratches me a lot. I think we need a baby that doesn't do all of that. So, we'll sell him and get a new one."

Foundation Friday

2007-10-12T07:17:00.000-05:00

I was tagged

2007-10-06T12:22:00.000-05:00

by my friend Leigh Ann. This one was fun!

What was I doing 10 years ago:
I was starting Columbia Bible College after taking a year off and transferring from Anderson College. I also was working for TCBY (one of my favorite jobs to this day) and had just started seeing CJ. One of my very best brother-friends used to joke that I wasn't spoken for, I was "mumbled" for because CJ and I didn't date traditionally. We didn't believe in spending all of our time with just each other and only spent time alone with each other when we knew we were going to marry.

What was I doing 5 years ago:
CJ and I had just moved to Birmingham, AL to start Bumper Man. We only knew 2 people there and we lived in a really nice apartment complex with a pool and a gym. We were really blessed to be able to take over someone's lease so we got a really good deal on it. Otherwise, we would not have been able to afford it. That was the same time CJ asked me to come home and be a stay-at-home wife. I was really bad at it at first and went to back work part-time in January. We fully intended to make Birmingham our home for the long haul until we got pregnant the next year.

What was I doing 1 year ago:
Last year was a tumultuous year for our family. We had our share of life and death. We had just bought our Owner Builder Network franchise and had our 3rd baby by c-section. My grandfather died on my birthday and my grandmother 6 months later (both of my mom's parents). My younger cousin died in January.

What I did yesterday:
I took the boys to the pumpkin patch with the help of my Me-Ma and then to Burger King. After nap time, we went to Wal-Mart for some diapers and to look at paint colors.

5 snacks that I love:
Nutella on graham crackers; Nilla wafers with p-nut butter; Frappaccinos; Lay's Salt and Vinegar potato chips; tortilla chips with shredded cheese melted on top

If I won 100 million what are 5 things I'd do:
Tithe; pay off ALL of our debt (mine and my parent's); invest; Have a standing once-a-month day at the day spa for head to toe treatment; pay for all of my girlfriends yearly girls' trips

5 locations I'd love to visit:
Greece; The Grand Canyon; Maine in the fall; a remote tropical island; Summerville

5 tv shows I like to watch: (only 5!?)
Heroes; Bionic Woman; Life; Cosby Show; Dirty Sexy Money (although I think I may get bored with this one)

5 things I hate to do:
Dust; wash dishes; run; clean up vomit (it makes me literally gag); change bed sheets

5 biggest joys at the moment:
Quiet nights; working out; Decluttering/ simplifying our lives; Date night with CJ; Being with the girls